std: Relax an assertion in oneshot selection

The assertion was erroneously ensuring that there was no data on the port when
the port had selection aborted on it. This assertion was written in error
because it's possible for data to be waiting on a port, even after it was
disconnected. When aborting selection, if we see that there's data on the port,
then we return true that data is available on the port.

Closes #12802