Default to --with-blkid in RPM packaging

Support for libblkid has been in the ZoL for years but has been
disabled by default in the packaging.  When libblkid is disabled
the 'zpool create' command will not warn you if you're going to
overwrite an existing filesystem.  For this reason the default
behavior has been changed to require libblkid.

Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Issue #2448
Make linking with and finding libblkid required (so that creating
pools on devices with existing filesystem will get a warning).
Use '--without-blkid' to explicitly disable this.

Signed-off-by: Turbo Fredriksson <turbo@bayour.com>
Closes: #2448
Explanation on merges etc.