Audit and convert tests to test/unit (minitest)

:construction: WIP :construction: 

This PR converts the RSpec tests to minitest. Most of the tests were translated over, but I'll make inline notes where I modified or removed tests for clarity.

- convert rspec tests to test/unit
- rename 'test/common' to 'test/test_helper'
- remove metaid dependency
- remove rspec dependency
- remove autotest
- auto generate gemspec files manifest

Why? My preference has always been to specify the simple relative path and leave it to the caller and test_helper to specify load paths.