after role deactivation stop services and remove HA resources

Same story as in https://github.com/crowbar/barclamp-keystone/pull/224

The deactivation recipes look slightly different though. 
We should compare this two PR's and determine if it makes sense to implement that functionality into a LWRP.


I am not sure, @aspiers or @vuntz (dont remember who it was) told me not to use node attributes for some reason (which i can't remember too...)
can someone of you please confirm?