[SPARK-3771][SQL] AppendingParquetOutputFormat should use reflection to prevent breaking binary-compatibility.

Original problem is [SPARK-3764](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-3764).

`AppendingParquetOutputFormat` uses a binary-incompatible method `context.getTaskAttemptID`.
This causes binary-incompatible of Spark itself, i.e. if Spark itself is built against hadoop-1, the artifact is for only hadoop-1, and vice versa.