[DEPLOY] SPARK-3759: Return the exit code of the driver process

SparkSubmitDriverBootstrapper.scala now returns the exit code of the driver process, instead of always returning 0.

Author: Eric Eijkelenboom <ee@userreport.com>

Closes #2628 from ericeijkelenboom/master and squashes the following commits:

cc4a571 [Eric Eijkelenboom] Return the exit code of the driver process
[SQL] Initilize session state before creating CommandProcessor

With the old ordering it was possible for commands in the HiveDriver to NPE due to the lack of configuration in the threadlocal session state.

Author: Michael Armbrust <michael@databricks.com>

Closes #2635 from marmbrus/initOrder and squashes the following commits:

9749850 [Michael Armbrust] Initilize session state before creating CommandProcessor
[SPARK-3654][SQL] Implement all extended HiveQL statements/commands with a separate parser combinator

Created separate parser for hql. It preparses the commands like cache,uncache,add jar etc.. and then parses with HiveQl

Author: ravipesala <ravindra.pesala@huawei.com>

Closes #2590 from ravipesala/SPARK-3654 and squashes the following commits:

bbca7dd [ravipesala] Fixed code as per admin comments.
ae9290a [ravipesala] Fixed style issues as per Admin comments
898ed81 [ravipesala] Removed spaces
fb24edf [ravipesala] Updated the code as per admin comments
8947d37 [ravipesala] Removed duplicate code
ba26cd1 [ravipesala] Created seperate parser for hql.It pre parses the commands like cache,uncache,add jar etc.. and then parses with HiveQl
[SPARK-3366][MLLIB]Compute best splits distributively in decision tree

Currently, all best splits are computed on the driver, which makes the driver a bottleneck for both communication and computation. This PR fix this problem by computed best splits on executors.
Instead of send all aggregate stats to the driver node, we can send aggregate stats for a node to a particular executor, using `reduceByKey` operation, then we can compute best split for this node there.

Implementation details:

Each node now has a nodeStatsAggregator, which save aggregate stats for all features and bins.
First use mapPartition to compute node aggregate stats for all nodes in each partition.
Then transform node aggregate stats to (nodeIndex, nodeStatsAggregator) pairs and use to `reduceByKey` operation to combine nodeStatsAggregator for the same node.
After all stats have been combined, best splits can be computed for each node based on the node aggregate stats. Best split result is collected to driver to construct the decision tree.

CC: mengxr manishamde jkbradley, please help me review this, thanks.

Author: qiping.lqp <qiping.lqp@alibaba-inc.com>
Author: chouqin <liqiping1991@gmail.com>

Closes #2595 from chouqin/dt-dist-agg and squashes the following commits:

db0d24a [chouqin] fix a minor bug and adjust code
a0d9de3 [chouqin] adjust code based on comments
9f201a6 [chouqin] fix bug: statsSize -> allStatsSize
a8a7ed0 [chouqin] Merge branch 'master' of https://github.com/apache/spark into dt-dist-agg
f13b346 [chouqin] adjust randomforest comments
c32636e [chouqin] adjust code based on comments
ac6a505 [chouqin] adjust code based on comments
7bbb787 [chouqin] add comments
bdd2a63 [qiping.lqp] fix test suite
a75df27 [qiping.lqp] fix test suite
b5b0bc2 [qiping.lqp] fix style
e76414f [qiping.lqp] fix testsuite
748bd45 [qiping.lqp] fix type-mismatch bug
24eacd8 [qiping.lqp] fix type-mismatch bug
5f63d6c [qiping.lqp] add multiclassification using One-Vs-All strategy
4f56496 [qiping.lqp] fix bug
f00fc22 [qiping.lqp] fix bug
532993a [qiping.lqp] Compute best splits distributively in decision tree
SPARK-2058: Overriding SPARK_HOME/conf with SPARK_CONF_DIR

Update of PR #997.

With this PR, setting SPARK_CONF_DIR overrides SPARK_HOME/conf (not only spark-defaults.conf and spark-env).

Author: EugenCepoi <cepoi.eugen@gmail.com>

Closes #2481 from EugenCepoi/SPARK-2058 and squashes the following commits:

0bb32c2 [EugenCepoi] use orElse orNull and fixing trailing percent in compute-classpath.cmd
77f35d7 [EugenCepoi] SPARK-2058: Overriding SPARK_HOME/conf with SPARK_CONF_DIR
[SPARK-3696]Do not override the user-difined conf_dir

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-3696

We see if SPARK_CONF_DIR is already defined before assignment.

Author: WangTaoTheTonic <barneystinson@aliyun.com>

Closes #2541 from WangTaoTheTonic/confdir and squashes the following commits:

c3f31e0 [WangTaoTheTonic] Do not override the user-difined conf_dir