Track expired tombstones

Patch by marcuse; reviewed by slebresne for CASSANDRA-7810
Merge branch 'cassandra-1.2' into cassandra-2.0

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
	src/java/org/apache/cassandra/db/ColumnIndex.java
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.0' into cassandra-2.1.0

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.1.0' into cassandra-2.1