Add some asserts that were handy when looking for a stasis cache problem.

* Assert if a channel is destroyed but has the snapshot staging flag set.
In this case the final channel destruction snapshot would never get taken.

* Assert if what we just got out of the stasis cache is not what we were
looking for.  This assert would have saved several days searching for a
bug and a lot of my hair.

* Assert if the music on hold message posts could not find the associated
channel.  A crash will happen later when manager tries to send the MOH AMI
message.  This assert catches the problem when the stasis message is
posted instead of by the thread processing the defective message.

* Always generate a backtrace when an ast_assert() fails.

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/3411/


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