[BUGFIX] Updating translated containers should exlude deleted only

BE enable fields is the wrong method in this case,
since we should only care about deleted translations.

Change-Id: Ibaf614a975555fe10c6abb371cf1336406838019
Resolves: #60329
Reviewed-on: http://review.typo3.org/31807
Reviewed-by: Jo Hasenau <info@cybercraft.de>
Tested-by: Jo Hasenau <info@cybercraft.de>