InCallUI: add decline and answer incoming call action on notifications (1/2)

Add decline and answer call action on notification if an call is incoming. Especially
usefull for call in background feature to have the ability to directly
decline or answer a incoming call. But as well usefull to decline/answer a second call
during one is incomming.

PS:
- found a better way for the answer button

PS:
- fix keep flip action alive
- fix collapse notification shade when answering call
- answer call before starting the UI to do not have
  shown the incall screen for a brief second

PS:
- fix wrong user on sending close system dialogs

Change-Id: I5a13b36f20563c24b83ca93b8484fb60a7b25c51