ISPN-4674 When sending partial topology updates, filter segment owners

* Topology updates need to filter segment owners based on the cluster
members sent to the client to cope with partial topology updates.
* Added distributed topology change under load test to replicate issue.
ISPN-3807 Cache the result of HQL query parser to be reused

Use a local cache with expiring entries to store the result of the HQL parsing and reuse it
if same query is executed.
ISPN-4446 Signal components of cache removal

* Since stop() takes no parameters, make the remove cache command
signal components of cache removal before cache stop, so that they can
do their job.