[Forge] Don't send resets to Clients which are known to not support it

Don't send the reset packet to Forge clients which are known to not support it. This does prevent the crash of Forge Clients which have a build number under 1209. This also prevents Forge Clients under that Buildnumber from joining any other Server (which is a Forge Server) when they don't support resetting the Handshake.
We can't make that assumption. The mod list isn't sent if we connect to a Vanilla lobby first - see comments above.