PHP-953: Do not check custom or generated index name lengths

https://jira.mongodb.org/browse/PHP-953

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The 127-byte limit on index names is specific to mmapv1 storage. For both commands and legacy inserts (to system.indexes), we can rely on the server to validate the length accordingly.

Added tests for legacy inserts to ensure an exception is still thrown (albeit with a different message directly from the server).
The server error message and code may vary across versions, but "name to long" is a common inclusion.