Enable apache stats and haproxy admin socket

Force apache to listen on loopback which means one is able to curl the local stats... or would be if curl was installed. 

Enable the very handy and nifty haproxy admin socket.
```
 sudo socat readline /var/run/haproxy/haproxy.asok
prompt
help
``` 

then you get this:
```
 clear counters : clear max statistics counters (add 'all' for all counters)
  clear table    : remove an entry from a table
  help           : this message
  prompt         : toggle interactive mode with prompt
  quit           : disconnect
  show info      : report information about the running process
  show pools     : report information about the memory pools usage
  show stat      : report counters for each proxy and server
  show errors    : report last request and response errors for each proxy
  show sess [id] : report the list of current sessions or dump this session
  show table [id]: report table usage stats or dump this table's contents
  get weight     : report a server's current weight
  set weight     : change a server's weight
  set server     : change a server's state or weight
  set table [id] : update or create a table entry's data
  set timeout    : change a timeout setting
  set maxconn    : change a maxconn setting
  set rate-limit : change a rate limiting value
  disable        : put a server or frontend in maintenance mode
  enable         : re-enable a server or frontend which is in maintenance mode
  shutdown       : kill a session or a frontend (eg:to release listening ports)
  show acl [id]  : report avalaible acls or dump an acl's contents
  get acl        : reports the patterns matching a sample for an ACL
  add acl        : add acl entry
  del acl        : delete acl entry
  clear acl <id> : clear the content of this acl
  show map [id]  : report avalaible maps or dump a map's contents
  get map        : reports the keys and values matching a sample for a map
  set map        : modify map entry
  add map        : add map entry
  del map        : delete map entry
  clear map <id> : clear the content of this map
  set ssl <stmt> : set statement for ssl
```

nice.