Fix race condition in XHR and handle other abort/open scenarios

This fixes issue #3630
A short summary of the changes:
* Use atomic generation id to cancel inflight requests
* Handles nested calls to abort, open, send inside handlers
* Adds XHRReleaseMsg to delay freeing XHR object till all
  inflight events are processed
* Handles both timeout, errors and abort/open in a symmetric fashion
  i.e All inflight events will be cancelled for timeouts, aborts,
    errors and on calling open.
* Change the ErroredMsg enum to be more symmetric with the returned
  Error enum