Make union/except/intersect chainable as SelectManager

Fixes #118.

This is the same as #239, but against master instead of 4-0-stable. It would be really nice to get this in so we don't need to keep freshening it! Or if there's a reason it isn't being merged, feedback would be great.
I think just to make the spacing of inner queries consistent with outer queries, unless @ofavre has a better answer for why he originally did it that way.