clean up cache invalidation information on the cache chapter

| Q             | A
| ------------- | ---
| Doc fix?      | yes
| New docs? | no
| Applies to    | all
| Fixed tickets | -

The documentation on active cache invalidation is overly negative. I tried to make it more neutral and point to FOSHttpCacheBundle for further information.
yes, as long as you make it BC. (so adding a `.. _http-expiration-and-validation:` anchor