Make it possible to compile this on Linux

The changes to cmake/util.cmake aren't mine, I simply copied the file from the cmake branch.
I added GTK as a dependency for the CEF headers and made some small changes to make gcc happy.

This isn't finished yet, right now [Boost fails to compile](https://gist.github.com/ngld/25248cab5411214df7f0) since it doesn't like SCP's ```strcat_s()``` and ```strcpy_s()```.
I added this MEM_DEBUG switch because these debug sections were slowing the debug build to a crawl.
I guess it's caused by CEF (it's calling them, too)...