Fix #249 (erlc regression)

The combination of changes to rebar_erlc_compiler, and the fact
that erl_first_files is inherited, caused a regression. To fix
that, ensure every project uses its own .rebar/erlcinfo. While at
it, fix the issue that erl_first_files entries were not included
when initializing the dep digraph.

Reported-by: Louis-Philippe Gauthier
Reported-by: Roland Karlsson

Thanks: Tuncer Ayaz