PREVIEW: OGM-526 - Map MongoDB object ids via IDENTITY strategy

@emmanuelbernard, @DavideD: Can you give me some quick feedback on this one.

The change brings support for MongoDB's `ObjectId`. It is supported to map it as `String` and Mongo's own `ObjectId` Java type.

When using identity strategy AUTO or INSERT, a value will be generated by the dialect upon insertion, so one round-trip to the datastore is saved. For that purpose I created another dialect facet, `IdentityColumnAwareGridDialect` which defines the operations required for the identity generation strategy. I also had to rip some pieces out of `EntityDehydrator` and move them into a new class `EntityAssociationUpdater`. The reason being, that we used to update the inverse side of bi-di associations *before* inserting the tuple on the main side. Of course this doesn't fly when generating the tuple id only during insert.

Thanks for any input!
What kind of examples DYM exactly? Isn't "Updates the inverse side of bi-directional many-to-one/one-to-one associations" not very specific already?