[ARM64] PR19792: Fix cycle in DAG after performPostLD1Combine

Povray and dealII currently assert with "Overran sorted position" in
AssignTopologicalOrder.  The problem is that performPostLD1Combine can
introduce cycles.

Consider:

(insert_vector_elt (INSERT_SUBREG undef,
                                  (load (add %vreg0, Constant<8>), undef),  <= A
                                  TargetConstant<2>),
                   (load %vreg0, undef),                                    <= B
                   Constant<1>)

This is turned into a LD1LANEpost node.  However the address in A is not a
valid user of the post-incremented address of B in LD1LANEpost.