gitian: upgrade miniupnpc input to 1.9

Bumps deps-linux, deps-win dependency versions as well.

qt-win does not need to be bumped, as although it depends on deps-win,
Qt doesn't use miniupnp. I verified this by rebuilding the dependency
and checking the the output is the same. Not having to rebuild Qt is a
good thing as it is huge.
doc: update expected intermediate dependency hashes

Also move them to release-process.md from gitian-building.md for more
visibility.
Merge pull request #4033

219b512 doc: update expected intermediate dependency hashes (Wladimir J. van der Laan)
25d4911 gitian: upgrade miniupnpc input to 1.9 (Wladimir J. van der Laan)