Common terminology for review comments

@singingwolfboy @sarina @nedbat Please take a look at the suggested terminology and definition proposed in this PR.  I spoke to @singingwolfboy about the benefits of having a common vocabulary for this and he proposed creating this PR to discuss it.  I'd appreciate your feedback.  I find this will be useful within our T&L team and possibly for edX at large.
@cahrens FYI.
I don't mind the "nit" signifier and I think your proposed new text is great.