Don't shell out to tar for ExportChanges

This changes ExportChanges to use the go tar support so we can
directly create tar layer files. This has several advantages:

* We don't have to create the whiteout files on disk to get them
  added to the layer

* We can later guarantee specific features (such as xattrs) being
  supported by the tar implementation.

Docker-DCO-1.1-Signed-off-by: Alexander Larsson <alexl@redhat.com> (github: alexlarsson)