[x86] Teach the new vector shuffle lowering code to handle what is
essentially a DAG combine that never gets a chance to run.

We might typically expect DAG combining to remove shuffles-of-splats and
other similar patterns, but we don't get a chance to run the DAG
combiner when we recursively form sub-shuffles during the lowering of
a shuffle. So instead hand-roll a really important combine directly into
the lowering code to detect shuffles-of-splats, especially shuffles of
an all-zero splat which needn't even have the same element width, etc.

This lets the new vector shuffle lowering handle shuffles which
implement things like zero-extension really nicely. This will become
even more important when I wire the legalization of zero-extension to
vector shuffles with the new widening legalization strategy.