Deleted .project

Unnecessary file for maven builds.  Importing project will create this.
fixed target exclusion

no need for forward slash, all will be ignored.
Various Updates bringing maven to the frontlines

- Updated readme
- Updated licenses on pom
- Updated groovy/tomcat/jgit
- Do not include base directory in assembly
- Added configured default server.xml and to assembly
Merge pull request #36 from hazendaz/master

Going live with maven version