Fix and cleanup HTTP Method Parsing

HTTP method parsing was failing, so I rewrote it because it was easier than debugging. All tests pass, the method is a lot shorter and cleaner.

I realized that the method was trying to avoid heap allocations, so my solution does too. Additionally, it avoids reallocating the extension string buffer. 

To keep the on-stack buffer small, I limited the extension-method parsing to 16 characters. Somewhat arbitrary, but it should align well on most machines. I hope no one comes up with an HTTP method name longer than that, but if they do, I noted it in the doc so it's not a silent *gotcha*. It can always be updated later.

Don't have a before for comparison, but...

    test http::tests::bench_read_method ... bench:       134 ns/iter (+/- 3) = 59 MB/s

*Me gusta*.

I might have gone overboard with the comments, but really, it's still a huge gain in the SNR of the method.
Our style has been `unsafe { raw::from_utf8(ext) }.trim()`