rewrite OnSubscribeRefCount to handle synchronous source

Resubmitting this one having stuffed up the rebase.

Rewrite of ```OnSubscribeRefCount``` because original didn't handle synchronous source (#1688) and as far as I could see the original was fundamentally broken by this use case. Please note also includes a fix in ```OperatorMulticast``` where a null check was required. I've done the rewrite using locks rather than submit a lock-free version just to ensure that the approach is valid with the experts first.
Won't this block right here on a synchronous source and then deadlock any other subscriber trying to subscribe since the lock is now held?