unionfs: hold mount interlock while manipulating mnt_flag

This is for consistency with other filesystems.
Provide vfs suspension support only for filesystems which need it, take
two.

nullfs and unionfs need to request suspension if underlying filesystem(s)
use it. Utilize mnt_kern_flag for this purpose.

This is a fixup for 273271.

No strong objections from: kib
Pointy hat to: mjg
MFC after:	2 weeks