AMQP-421: Fix Memory Leak with Publisher Confirms

JIRA: https://jira.spring.io/browse/AMQP-421

The wrong key is being used for `RabbitTemplate.pendingConfirms`. The rabbit template
stores the pending confirms map under the `ChannelProxy` whereas the
removal uses the actual `PublisherCallbackChannel` so the map
entry is not removed.

Use the correct key to store the pending callback map so that it
is removed from the template when closed.

Change a test case to use the `CachingConnectionFactory` instead of
a mock and verify the map is cleared.

**Add docs explaining that Publisher Confirms and Returns only works
with cached channels - ensure the cache size is sufficiently large.