use new :osxfuse symbolic dependency

change formula to use :osxfuse symbolic dependency from #31975

Closes #32203.

Signed-off-by: Mike McQuaid <mike@mikemcquaid.com>
Use bundler for test gem dependencies.
afflib: update 3.7.4 bottle.
afuse: add 0.4.1 bottle.
apt-cacher-ng: update 0.7.27 bottle.
archivemount: add 0.8.3 bottle.
avfs: add 1.0.1 bottle.
bindfs: update 1.12.6 bottle.
curlftpfs: add 0.9.2 bottle.