Allow EventFilter to match paths without system name for source

Previously the full path was needed when specifying the source, including the actor system name.

This PR makes it possible to use paths without system name (paths with system name are still allowed):

    EventFilter.Exception<ActorInitializationException>(source:"/user/failing-actor").ExpectOne(()=>
      ActorOf(Props.Create<FailsOnInstantiationActor>, "failing-actor")
    );
Yeah, that's exactly why `StringComparison.OrdinalIgnoreCase` is there.

>The solution is simple. In most cases, when you compare strings, you want to compare them using StringComparison.Ordinal or StringComparison.OrdinalIgnoreCase.
http://haacked.com/archive/2012/07/05/turkish-i-problem-and-why-you-should-care.aspx/