Flush stale column families less aggressively

Summary:
We've seen some production issues where column family is detected as stale, although there is only one column family in the system. This is a quick fix that:
1) doesn't flush stale column families if there's only one of them
2) Use 4 as a coefficient instead of 2 for determening when a column family is stale. This will make flushing less aggressive, while still keep a nice dynamic flushing of very stale CFs.

Test Plan: make check

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo, ljin, sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

Subscribers: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D18861