Fix impatience totem interaction with abstaining:

- Moving code to chk_decision means that doing an actual !abstain
will still make you show up in !votes (unlike now where it does not)
- impatience and pacifism should balance each other out if they
are present in equal numbers, preventing an !abstain from working
if you have impatience does not yield that behavior
Pacifism/Impatience totem improvements

- A message is now displayed whenever a pacifism or impatience totem is
  triggered, e.g. "X impatiently votes for Y." or "X meekly votes to not
  lynch anyone today." These are played immediately before the vote
  passes, so there is no opportunity for people to abandon course.
- Reinstate people with impatience totems being the ones that die to
  desperation totems. Due to the above message playing, it is now more
  obvious why they died, and I believe that doing it this way adds to
  gameplay ("I have a random totem and so does the person being voted. I
  should try to jump in early just in case I have impatience so I don't
  die."). If someone with impatience votes normally, their actual vote
  counts for determing vote order (so they aren't last unless they voted
  last). If there are multiple people with impatience that didn't vote,
  then the order in which they vote is random.
Merge pull request #85 from skizzerz/fiximpatience

Impatience and pacifism totem improvements