Fixes status displays blanking out when escape shuttle is about to launch

Conflicts:
	code/controllers/emergency_shuttle_controller.dm
Reduces docking timeout to 20 seconds
Allows escape pods to be armed from inside the pod

Conflicts:
	code/game/machinery/embedded_controller/simple_docking_controller.dm
Makes the escape shuttle NanoUI window bigger
Status displays now won't blank when undocking, too
Fixes bad emergency shuttle can_force() check