Provide UserManager addToGroup() and removeFromGroup()

@frett review please

This PR provides UserManager and UserDao API's for adding and removing users from a group.

Note that these changes will require that all projects defining spring bean `LdaptiveUserDao` and/or `UserLdapEntryMapper` be updated. @dsgoers 
I threw an unchecked exception since `DnParser` did and wanted to be consistent. However, I'm open to throwing/catching checked and simply logging it.