Allow specifying `SelectorProvider` when constructing an NIO channel



Motivation:

At the moment Netty uses the system-wide default selector provider for this invocation of the Java virtual machine when constructing a new NIO channel, which makes using an alternative `SelectorProvider` practically useless.
This change allows user specify his/her preferred `SelectorProvider`.

Modifications:

Add `SelectorProvider` as a param for current `private static *Channel newSocket` method of `NioSocketChannel`, `NioServerSocketChannel` and `NioDatagramChannel`.
Change default constructors of `NioSocketChannel`, `NioServerSocketChannel` and `NioDatagramChannel` to use `DEFAULT_SELECTOR_PROVIDER` when calling `newSocket(SelectorProvider)`.
Add new constructors for `NioSocketChannel`, `NioServerSocketChannel` and `NioDatagramChannel` which allow user specify his/her preferred `SelectorProvider`.

Result:

Now users can specify his/her preferred `SelectorProvider` when constructing an NIO channel.

See issue #2311