fix repositioning of taglist(too) into the virtical tool space on open

- taglisttoo re-updated to fire now suppressed autocmds after the buffer
  window is setup
  ervandew/taglisttoo@534712800661187d4469472d61e7c7a8554f16a2
- fix autocmd matching of taglist title to instead match all buffers and
  check the window title when the autocmd fires (since matching brackets
  in the filename stopped working)