Add code of conduct
Merge pull request #36 from jacobwalker0814/conduct

Add code of conduct
Point deployment to server IP

`devict.org` goes through cloudflare which does not forward ssh. We need
to connect directly to the server such as, in this case, via IP.
Alternatively we could set up `ssh.devict.org` or `direct.devict.org` or
something and point the deploy script at that.
Remove specification of 'verbal' comments
Code of Conduct formatting cleanup