Fix Reference attribute usage with tables that have alias names.
Merge pull request #383 from BruceCowan-AI/FixAliasedTablesWithReferenceAttribute

Fix Reference attribute usage with tables that have alias names.
Add fallback in Save/Load references to look at code conventions when matching aliases were not found
Fix NRE when saving Poco with null references
Update README.md
A small start ...
AQ-12277 Add ToCreateTriggerStatements to IOrmLiteDialectProvider and implement for Oracle

* second update failure unit test now passes
AQ-12277 Fix PrepareParameterizedDeleteStatement to always add a where clause for rowversion column when there is one

* fix unit test to just check that row still exists when attempting to delete it with stale rowversion id.
Add unit tests
Optimistic Concurrency / RowVersion for SQL Server

- use CONVERT when reading RowVersion type
- move functional body of GetColumnNames to DialectProvider so it can be overridden
Optimistic Concurrency / RowVersion for SQLite
Name trigger after table / column to prevent collisions between tables