Add option to skip release discovery

`rlx_prv_discover` provider recursively scans all directories in
`lib_dirs` list looking for `*.app` and `*.rel` files.

This commit adds an option `disable_rel_discovery` to skip searching for
`*.rel` files when we know there aren't any. This speeds up release
generation with a lot of dependencies on the `libs_dir` list
significantly and reduces total release generation time in half.
don't output release successfully created if verbose option is 0
fix path to start_clean in console_clean start script option
add config option for output_dir, currently only a cmd arg
mv nodetool and install_upgrade script to bin dir, so no need to incl erts
Merge pull request #96 from konradkaplita/disable_rel_discovery

Add option to skip release discovery
Merge pull request #110 from tsloughter/console_clean

fix path to start_clean in console_clean start script option
Merge pull request #111 from tsloughter/config_output_dir

add config option for output_dir, currently only a cmd arg
Merge pull request #109 from tsloughter/verbose_opt_fix

don't output release successfully created if verbose option is 0
properly handle config files and switching on/off dev_mode
Merge pull request #113 from tsloughter/dev_mode_sys_config

properly handle config files and switching on/off dev_mode
Merge pull request #112 from tsloughter/mvoe_nodetool_install_upgrade

mv nodetool and install_upgrade script to bin dir, so no need to incl erts
append .exe to the bin name on win32 systems
use rebar bootstrap script as a quick template to build relx on win32
fix indentation
don't convert to native name when writing erl.ini paths