ISPN-4490 Members can miss the rebalance cancellation on coordinator change

Simulate the rebalance cancellation in StateTransferManagerImpl.
ISPN-4496 EncryptProtocolIT shouldn't check passwords via JMX
Replace ignore tests with empty test to avoid false alarms
Replace sfl4j-jdk14 dependency with sfl4j-log4j12 so that jboss logging
writes to log4j in the cdi module (and dependents).

Add more debugging around cache listeners. It seems Class.getMethods()
sometimes returns synthetic methods created by overriding a generic method.