[SPARK-3054][STREAMING] Add unit tests for Spark Sink.

This patch adds unit tests for Spark Sink.

It also removes the private[flume] for Spark Sink,
since the sink is instantiated from Flume configuration (looks like this is ignored by reflection which is used by
Flume, but we should still remove it anyway).

Author: Hari Shreedharan <hshreedharan@apache.org>
Author: Hari Shreedharan <hshreedharan@cloudera.com>

Closes #1958 from harishreedharan/spark-sink-test and squashes the following commits:

e3110b9 [Hari Shreedharan] Add a sleep to allow sink to commit the transactions
120b81e [Hari Shreedharan] Fix complexity in threading model in test
4df5be6 [Hari Shreedharan] Merge remote-tracking branch 'asf/master' into spark-sink-test
c9190d1 [Hari Shreedharan] Indentation and spaces changes
7fedc5a [Hari Shreedharan] Merge remote-tracking branch 'asf/master' into spark-sink-test
abc20cb [Hari Shreedharan] Minor test changes
7b9b649 [Hari Shreedharan] Merge branch 'master' into spark-sink-test
f2c56c9 [Hari Shreedharan] Update SparkSinkSuite.scala
a24aac8 [Hari Shreedharan] Remove unused var
c86d615 [Hari Shreedharan] [SPARK-3054][STREAMING] Add unit tests for Spark Sink.
Akka timeouts from ContextCleaner when cleaning shuffles