[x86] Remove the last vestiges of the BLENDI-based ADDSUB pattern
matching. This design just fundamentally didn't work because ADDSUB is
available prior to any legal lowerings of BLENDI nodes. Instead, we have
a dedicated ADDSUB synthetic ISD node which is pattern matched trivially
into the instructions. These nodes are then recognized by both the
existing and a trivial new lowering combine in the backend. Removing
these patterns required adding 2 missing shuffle masks to the DAG
combine, without which tests would have failed. Added the masks and
a helpful assert as well to catch if anything ever goes wrong here.