zlib: do not Unref() if wasn't Ref()ed

In very unlikely case, where `deflateInit2()` may return error (right
now happening only on exhausting all memory), the `ZCtx::Error()` will
be called and will try to `Unref()` the handle. But the problem is that
this handle was never `Ref()`ed, so it will trigger an assertion error
and crash the program.

Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
PR-URL: https://github.com/joyent/node/pull/8687
Merge remote-tracking branch 'upstream/v0.10' into v0.10