feat($compile): optionally get controllers from ancestors only

Implement option to strengthen require '^' operator, by adding another '^'.

When a second '^' is used, the controller will only search parent nodes for the matching controller, and will throw or return null if not found, depending on whether or not the requirement is optional.

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It might be good to simply make this strengthened behaviour the default, since given what the original docs were saying, it really is the expected behaviour.

Closes #4518
Doesn't that impose a requirement that `^` comes before `?` if people want to do both? I thought about doing it that way but it just seems fragile usability-wise