[connman] vpn: Do not start connman-vpnd automatically

To save memory for most users, disable connman-vpnd start at bootup by
systemd and also disable D-Bus activation (as connmand vpn plugin will
issue a net.connman.vpn call at startup)

The daemon can still be started and stopped with systemctl after the
changes.
Having %exclude in front of this line should be enough. Also would add comment above the line "We do not want vpn to autostart over dbus." or something similar