contrib.md: 1st draft

why: https://medium.com/node-js-javascript/codes-of-conduct-82ab2d88112d

Still work in progress, but I whipped this up for now.

Once this is done(ish) and reviewed I (or we) __will__ be applying this to ever single repo under jshttp & pillarjs, as well as active expressjs repos and express / expressjs.com themselves.
yeah, I didn't notice that it's a first draft. Also, `Guidlines`.