hookup_manager stage one:  New tables for pending and active hookups (pair programming events)

relates to pivotal stories "display list of pending events in a table", 75025008, and "display list of active/live hookups (i.e. hookups with live hangouts) in a separate table",75025492. 
They are different in their actions, and in the future they will probably be more different, so it's best to leave them alone.