ISPN-4733 Investigate potential issues with System.nanoTime() overflow

* Fixed TestingUtil calculation for when to stop trying
* Changed stats to not error if nanotime is -1 (extreme edge case)
* Also fixed TransactionTable when clearing old txs
Replace sfl4j-jdk14 dependency with sfl4j-log4j12 so that jboss logging
writes to log4j in the cdi module (and dependents).

Add more debugging around cache listeners. It seems Class.getMethods()
sometimes returns synthetic methods created by overriding a generic method.