ISPN-4519 Prepare should be broadcasted to entire cluster in replicated mode

Command should be sent to null even if not all caches are members
ISPN-4517 RollbackCommands should ignore leavers
ISPN-4484 fix caused unnecessary InterruptedExceptions

When state transfer is over, the response to the last StateResponseCommand
could reach the provider node after the CH_UPDATE from the coordinator.

If that happens, no data is lost, but the OutboundTransferTask thread is
interrupted and it logs the InterruptedException stack trace.
ISPN-4552 Upgrade H2 driver to 1.4.180
ISPN-4550 JpaStoreOOMETest.testProcessClear always fails

* store the data in disk to avoid OOME
ISPN-4512 CacheManagerTest.testCacheManagerRestartReusingConfigurations random failures

Move the up handler deregistration to CommandAwareRpcDispatcher.stop
TODO
Logging improvements
Fix TestingUtil.clearContent for secure cache managers
find_unstable_tests_teamcity wasn't using the command-line arguments
Log non-CacheRpcCommand responses
StateTransferFunctionalTest
Stop forked threads after each method, not just after the class
StateTransferLargeObjectTest
Log filtering script fix
Fix TestingUtil.extractComponentRegistry for secure caches
Replace Exception.printStackTrace with proper logging
Replace System.out.println with logging
Merge the performance test group into the profiling group
find_unstable_tests_teamcity.py fixes
Fix NPE handling initial topology update on the first node with L1 enabled