Community guidelines

This is an initial draft.  It's not complete but is far enough along that it's ready for more eyes and comments.
"these incidents present a chance for the offenders, and the community at large, to grow, learn, and become better"
-> "these incidents present a chance for the community as a whole to grow, learn, and become better" avoids both making the victim(s) invisible and associating the offenders with the community.